u/IAmVictoriaGray

I'm currently writing a piece for my substack de-influencing professional FemDom (online) and FinDom.

I'm mostly focusing on my own experiences but wanted to ask the community - what are things that you wish newbie/curious FinDommes and Pro Dommes knew before they started? Things you wish the influencers on social who are telling these young girls to do this would actually tell them? What sort of mental health advice would you give to young girls considering entering this difficult industry?

People who are coming to this group for its intended purpose - to learn about and discuss psychology and BDSM - are getting overwhelmed by all the personal ads.

I've created a new rule that personal ads are not allowed. This is a group for discussion, not a group to be taken over by people's horny wants. Take that elsewhere.

In addition, I have swept through and removed a load of personal ads. I am sure there are more that will be weeded out and removed.

I'm not banning people from the group right now, but if this continues that may begin to happen. People who are egotistical enough to think the whole group exists to get them off aren't our community anyway.