
The person I thought I was gonna marry ended it after 4 years
Dated a girl for 4 years, I’ve never felt more comfortable with a person. We use to do everything together until recently she started going on multiple trips to different places with friends and never invited me or showed interest in going to other places together. I really don’t think anything was going on behind my back, I think she just genuinely doesn’t love me anymore. This happened a month ago and I have since moved into a new place, but god almighty is it hard. She was the one to end things and gave the “it’s not you it’s me” argument, saying she just kinda checked out of the relationship. I spent the month convincing myself it was for the best and pretending to be ok, but just this weekend it all really hit me and I’d honestly do anything to have her back. Problem is I think she just genuinely doesn’t want to be with me anymore, for whatever reason. Y’all can give advice but I’m really just venting.