was i abused?
i’m only 18 years old and i’m a lesbian i really need help. I’ve been with my ex girlfriend for a year and just recently it’s like a flip switched. We’ve had more arguments and she started saying things after like “you almost made me hit you” or “i was scared i’d hit you” but in those situations usually it’s because i was being petty and patronizing her. she’d tell me not to touch her or whatever and i’d continue to just to be petty. or to stop talking to her but i’d keep going. but last night was completely different. we had an argument over me going to a party and we were sitting at a park in my car to talk about it. I told she was being controlling and taking it too far because it was just a one party (the only one i’ve gone too since we’ve been tg) and she stormed out of my car in the rain. i love her and care about her so i followed her because it was past midnight in a bad neighborhood. (we had previously heard gunshots but that’s pretty normal where im from.) she kept trying to walk away from me and i’d follow her. she was screaming at me to leave her alone but i didnt. she started shoving me really hard and would push my chest to get me away. she then started pushing me on my throat so i started filming. she then tackled me to the floor (muddy grass) and forced my phone out of my hands then threw it into the woods. i told my friend about it and she said i was abused. WE ARE BROKEN UP. but i don’t know what to make of this situation.