>be me, former choir kid starting T

>was soprano

>slightly bummed that I won't hit the high notes anymore

>kinda hyped I'll finally get to hit low notes tho

>voice starts dropping six months in

>try singing along with male vocalists on radio

>male vocalists sing way too high and it hurts my throat trying to match them

>chat how tf did this happen

/uj chat how tf did this happen

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u/I_cannot_fit — 9 days ago

Be me, non binary on tumblr's for you page

The algorithm is assuming I'm a trans woman.

Every post recommended to me is about how trans men are basically nazis and violent abusers.

I block ten accounts in the span of 2 minutes. The algorithm notices.

The algorithm now assumes I'm a trans man.

Every post recommended to me is about how trans women are basically nazis and weird perverts.

I block another ten accounts in the span of 2 minutes. The algorithm notices.

The algorithm assumes I'm… Brazilian, for some fucking reason. Every post recommended to me is in Portuguese now. I can't read any of this. What??

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u/I_cannot_fit — 16 days ago

Cointelprogesterone

Nonono you see all the bigotry coming from trans(in-group) is a psyop by the government meant to pull us apart, no real trans(in-group) actually believes that.

Oh, trans(out-group)? No yeah all the bigotry you see in there is 100% real and they do want to murder you personally. They're already grabbing the torches and pitchforks.

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u/I_cannot_fit — 1 month ago

POV an 11 year old "girl" is talking to you about her OCs

"Okay yeah so my character's a girl but she has a secret identity/alter ego/virtual reality avatar as a guy. She's forced to dress like a girl in her daily life but makes herself look like a dude every moment she has the chance, and even goes by a way cooler secret unisex name as opposed to her lame girl name. Also she never corrects anyone when she's mistaken for a guy and acts infinitely happier when she's in this boy disguise."

"Oh also she doesn't have a reason to actually do this, girls are allowed to do the super cool adventure stuff without having to disguise themselves as boys. My OC just does it because I think it's cool."

"I will not reflect on this for at least another decade because I am literally 11."

/uj had a flashback to some childhood OCs and holy fuck the eggshell was made of GLASS

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u/I_cannot_fit — 1 month ago

Which one's a tru trans and which one is a terf-socialized cissexual larper

Person A uses he/him pronouns and describes himself as trans. He has undergone a full wardrobe change, has legally changed his name and gender marker, and has been on HRT for several years.

Person B uses they/them pronouns and describes themself as trans. They have undergone a full wardrobe change, have legally changed their name and gender marker, and have been on HRT for several years.

Cast your votes!

/uj saw the phrase "terf-socialized cissexual larper" today and had to jerk

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u/I_cannot_fit — 1 month ago

The non-binary binary

A lot of people think the they/thems can be sorted into girl nonbinary or boy nonbinary, but this is a misconception!

The actual categories are Trender and Stepping Stone. Hope this helps!

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u/I_cannot_fit — 2 months ago

The least believable part of the show for me

I think my biggest gripe with the show is that somehow, despite being trapped in the circus for YEARS before Pomni showed up, it feels like the cast knows fuck all about each other.

Especially with Ragatha and Kinger. Rags, girl, you're telling me you've been roommates with this guy for nearly a decade and you never pieced together that he's lucid in the dark? Was there never a single adventure that put you two in a dark area? It's not like Caine forces Kinger to be in well-lit rooms all the time because otherwise episode 3 wouldn't have happened.

Then during the bar scene, we're presented with extremely basic information about each character and their previous lives. All I could think of, even when I still liked the show, was "Shouldn't everyone but Pomni already know this?"

You're telling me their past jobs never came up in casual conversation over the years? And with how Ragatha so freely volunteers information about her abusive mom, you'd think she'd have talked about it before, but everyone acts shocked and uncomfortable when it happens.

Plus just like… Queenie as a whole. When Pomni brings up that Kinger had a wife, we really only see Jax's reaction, which is confusion. Jax, buddy, you're telling me you've been here for YEARS, and have never noticed that the face on the door RIGHT NEXT TO YOURS looks weirdly similar to Kinger?? Or if you did, you just never wondered what that could mean???

I've seen the reasoning that Caine kept everyone so busy with adventures that they wouldn't have time to have basic conversation with each other, but that's blatantly untrue since multiple episodes give the cast downtime between adventures. And when five other people are your sole human interaction, I find it hard to believe that they're still strangers after living with them for years.

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u/I_cannot_fit — 2 months ago

The REAL problem with trans headcanons

/uj she would not fucking wear that. Yes it's cute and feminine but that is absolutely nowhere close to her fashion style. You just googled 'popular women's fashion' and didn't think any harder about what the character would actually wear if she transitioned to a woman.

/uj this is about shadow the hedgehog

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u/I_cannot_fit — 2 months ago

That's it, I'm done trying to find good trans manga. Let's see what independent webcomics have.

Slice of life drama about a teenage trans girl

Slice of life drama about a teenage trans girl

Slice of life drama about a teenage trans girl

Slice of life drama about a teenage trans girl

/uj no actual shade to these but I find it amusing that several trans webcomics have the exact same premise

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u/I_cannot_fit — 3 months ago

Hey look, a post about a feminist subject matter that I agree with

… but just in case lemme check something.

*types the keyword "trans" into OP's blog/post history/whatever*

…

…

God fucking dammit

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u/I_cannot_fit — 3 months ago

Remember, it's never okay to misgender someone even if they've done bad things!

*5 hours later*

Actually theyfab is a term to describe foids women AFABs who pretend to be non-binary use their non-binary identity as a bludgeon against true binary trans people (but mostly women). No I will not look into the actual history of the term or how it's been used. Don't ever question why no one uses theymab as an insult.

See, it's not misgendering if she they mention her their assigned gender at any point, and it's not misogyny because they're not technically women but come on, who are we kidding?

In fact, just to be safe, I think we should consider all "non-binary" "people" theyfabs. Fucking trenders ruining the good name of us real trannies.

/uj I FUCKING LOVE HISTORICAL REVISIONISM I LOVE SEEING TRANSMEDICALIST SLURS MAKING A COMEBACK BECAUSE PEOPLE GOT CONVINCED THEY WERE SECRETLY WOKE

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u/I_cannot_fit — 3 months ago

Oh thank god this establishment has a gender neutral restroom

Looks inside

Horrifically filthy, probably hasn't been cleaned in months. Maybe because you're the only person in a 20 mile radius who would use this restroom.

It's a single room, and the lock's broken. There's no door stop to act as a makeshift lock. Despite the fact that no one's touched this room for ages, somehow two different people want to use this while you're trying to take a dump, and you have to scream at them to close the door. Because they never fucking knock first before trying to open it.

The sink's leaky and you're not sure what that weird mass is in the corner. You gotta get the fuck outta here.

/uj this has happened to me at least three times now no joke. I no longer trust neutral restrooms unless they're the "this used to be gendered but we just removed the signage for that" type.

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u/I_cannot_fit — 3 months ago

I LOVE BEING NON-BINARY

I LOVE ALWAYS BEING TREATED LIKE AN AFTERTHOUGHT

I LOVE BEING GLARED AT EVERY TIME I'VE TRIED TO CORRECT SOMEONE ABOUT MY PRONOUNS

I LOVE HAVING TO ROLL OVER AND ACCEPT THAT I'LL ONLY EVER BE SEEN AS A MAN OR A WOMAN

I LOVE HOW OTHER TRANS PEOPLE SEE ME AS A JOKE

I LOVE HOW OTHER TRANS PEOPLE THINK I'M AN EGG DESPITE BEING OUT FOR YEARS NOW

I LOVE THAT I'M NEVER REAL ENOUGH

I LOVE BEING SEEN AS WHATEVER GENDER IS CONVENIENT FOR SOMEONE ELSE

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u/I_cannot_fit — 3 months ago