u/IcAnT_tHiNk_Of_NaMeS

a guy named mark who goes to my school SAed me when i was in 7th grade. now im in 9th and have a boyfriend. he has recently been getting close to mark, and i feel betrayed bc my boyfriend knows abt the situation. i told him today that i want him to stop talking to him and he seriously asked me why. he said that since marks nice to him and hasn’t been weird lately that it should be fine. any advice helps!!

when i responded with yes (as the vast majority of ppl my age do), he shamed me for it and called me disgusting, saying it’s bad for me. he said not to talk to him again until i stop my habit. what do i do? i’ve always been told masturbating is a healthy and normal thing to do, but now i’m second guessing everything. i’m not going to change my behavior for him. all advice helps 🙏🏼