HCBM doesn’t understand why SK respect us but not her.
As the title says BM is very upset that the kids do not treat her with respect, but show DH and me respect. It especially drivers her crazy with SS. At her house they do not have chores they do not have rules, BM goes out often leaving the kids alone.
Our house is the complete opposite, everyone contributes. They have limits on their electronics, we have quality time together. They are not allowed to eat whatever they want, they cannot eat in their bedrooms. We also eat dinner at the dinner table every night.
Lately when SD is around BM she has been treating DH horribly, but when she is not around BM it is perfectly fine! SD is 13 so for a bit we chalked it up to hormones but we finally figured it out it is literally only when BM is around.
Does anyone else experience this?
SS is over BM bs so doesn’t care about her feelings and is older and sees through her manipulation and stopped this a year ago.