35M my wife 30F (together 4 years total) wants to see other people
I think my wife wants to get divorced without outright saying it. But she said she wants an open relationship because she doesn't have strong feelings for me anymore and doesn't want sex with me. To be fair she did tell me about this problem in the beginning, where she falls out of love with time but we thought it would be different for us. Otherwise we have been really happy and I'm totally caught off guard although things have been gradually becoming less romantic for a while now. I also think she's been starting to talk to other guys a little bit since she told me. I really don't want to get divorced and I need advice. We've been married for a year and a half. I really want to be with someone who can give me what I need, but I love her so much and she's a good person and she's sad too. Is there any hope? What should I do? She doesn't think therapy will help because she's always been like this and she thinks she can't have a real marriage with anyone. I'm heartbroken
TLDR my wife doesn't want to be monogamous with me anymore, but I do. What should I do? It's been 4 years total, no kids.
Edit: maybe it's better to get divorced now rather than sinking even more time into it? Maybe it's a good thing it's early on??
-she is gonna do therapy.
-i finally got into her phone, I don't think she's been doing anything wrong anymore. I feel bad for doing that.