u/Icy-Insurance-4146

For some reason, I keep encountering mean girls at pilates and spin studios despite always being polite. Here’s some examples:
- saying “sorry excuse me I need to use the hair dryer beside you” and getting met with eye rolls or barely moving to make space
- girls accidentally bumping into me and not saying sorry or even rolling eyes at me when they were the ones who were spatially unaware by being on their phones or talking to their friends
- even had a girl who was busy spraying deodorant on herself when i was right beside her tying my shoelaces with my eyes in direct line with her spray and not apologising

I have never been rude to anyone at these studios cause what reason do I have to be rude to literal strangers LOL but I really wanna know if anyone else faces this

Anyone else has experienced a boss before that is socially controlling like she will give you shit for talking to people from other cliques at work? I have a boss that would mistrust and judge you simply for talking to people she dislikes (and often times she dislikes other people for very superficial and irrational reasons). She will also socially pressure you and be passive aggressive if you do/say things that deviate from her opinions