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I F27, am currently single. In my past relationships I have never been able to settle and feel satisfied with my partners. I have always been the kind of person who shows her emotions but I generally take my time to gain feelings for another, so beginning is not the stage for me to impress or ”miss“ them, I usually show my original self and try to explore their personality. I have noticed that men pursue me a lot right off the start of the relationship, but when I do eventually start to reciprocate to their feelings, i notice a shift in their behaviour- texting/calling me less/ talking mostly about themself, showing less curiosity about me, making less effort in general. although these are all nice guys, that many women would be happy to be with, but I just cannot handle their shift in behaviour. it hurts me and makes me less attracted to their inconsistency.

I am really trying to understand if it’s me who is the problem (maybe in relationships people don’t really like that much intensity of emotional connection as much as I prefer) or is it that I should raise my standard to men who are genuinely suitable for me.

I have tried communicating this with my previous partners, and they admitted that they do try less, but to make up for it i usually find them doing grand gestures to make me feel secure and good about them instead of having a consistent momentum going with their emotional attentiveness towards me. So in the end I do end up feeling like less of a priority and more like a “pretty girlfriend” by their side whenever they need me. So I have always been the one to walk out of the relationships as I don’t feel like they are the one.

Is there anyone that feels this way? It is not about being anxious about your partner leaving or anything but it’s more about feeling sad that ever man I have dated takes me for granted and is complacent with effort. I have discussed this with other people either they can’t relate (because they are not as emotional as me) or they don’t like to open up about their vulnerable situations. But I would really like to feel like there are other people who have a similar struggle.
thank you ❤️

I have been studying for TEF Canada since a few months now, and I am starting to feel like I am getting somewhere. I am currently at B1-B2 level, trying to attain upper B2. I self study and so far it’s been going great, as I spend 3-4 hours a day studying. I use chat gpt to get an estimate score for my writing part but lately it has been acting weird. Lately I have been getting CLB 7-8 as an estimated score by chat. One time I showed it one of my passage and it gave me 7-8 CLB, and I asked him if it was sure, and it said, no it’s actually 5. and then I asked him again from another chat (same passage), it scored me 6-7. It’s different every time, and it’s really disheartening for me, as I don’t know how else to check my writing progress. I thought writing is one of my strongest skills in French, but now it is starting to stress me out.
help!

I have been studying for TEF Canada exam since a few months now. I need someone to give me an estimated CLB score for my writing.

Sujet : Faut-il interdire les téléphones intelligents dans les restaurants ?

À notre epoque, l’usage des téléphones intelligents en mangeants avec les amis et les familles est devenu un problème. Selon la rapport, plusieurs personnes ses sentent neglecté avec leurs amis ou partenairs romantiques quand ils utilisent leurs téléphones en mangeant les repas avec eux. 

À mon avis, cette habitude est très nuisible pour les relations entre les gens parce qu’il mène au malentendu entre des personnes qui peut aussi détruire des connexions. C’est pourquoi, il faut interdire les téléphones intelligents dans les restaurants. 

Premièrement,  le tèlèphone intelligent diminue la santé particulièrement lorsqu’il est utilisé durant repas. C’est-à-dire, les gens sont se distraits avec les téléphones qui est mauvaise pour la disgestion. 

Deuxièmement, il faut apprécier les connexions avec les gens sans le distraction du téléphone. Effectivement, à cause de téléphones intelligents quelque gens se devienent asocials, alors que d’autres se sentent solitaires car ils ont moins de personnes avec qui parler, par conséquant, ils se sentent deçu. 

De ce fait, les restaurants devraient interdire les téléphones, en effet pour combattre cette enjeu de addiction avec l’usage des téléphones intelligents. 

please let me know the CLB, thanks in advance. I am aiming for CLB 7