As a late bloomer in her 40s, where and how do I go about practicing flirting? There’s a lot of comp het/shame I’ve had to work through and I’d like to work on connecting with other women 😄 Any ideas?
So, I’ve arrived at the community because my ex wife killed* my husband. My spouse came out as a trans woman during our marriage giving me a wife before I knew I was queer. Divorced and no contact. I have mad respect for her journey, but frankly she is none of my business.
I’m trying to find my footing in the queer community and often times don’t feel I belong. Right now, I identify as pan and nonbinary because gender is stupid, but gender expression is beautiful. I’m at a stage where I feel very clunky and angsty and very much like a brooding teen (I’m in my 40s).
During all of this, I also learned I’m autistic which has helped me a lot. Idk what’s next for me, but I’m giving myself grace as I figure this all out.
ETA: *not literally. Apologies to my fellow literal folks 😆💗