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“Welcome to the real world. It sucks. You’re gonna love it.”

Monica says this in the very first episode of Friends and honestly? It takes a while to fully understand what she means. And that’s okay. It’s supposed to take time.

At some point soon I’ll be saying goodbye to my 20s, and if I could share a few things this decade taught me, it’d probably be this:

Celebrate your wins. Alone, with people, however it happens, celebrate them. Because only you really know how much it took to get there.

Some of the bravest decisions I’ve ever made happened while I was terrified. Brené Brown says courage can be measured by vulnerability and fear. If something doesn’t scare you, it probably doesn’t require courage. You are brave. Maybe you just need a little more time to realize it.

People are gonna do things you don’t like, and honestly that says more about them than about you. But you’re also gonna do things that hurt or disappoint people you love too. You’ll mess up. Everybody does. The important part is what you do after the mistake. And therapy genuinely helps more than people admit.

It’s okay to change your mind. I actually have way fewer certainties now than I used to, but I know myself way more deeply.

Friendships require maintenance, and that’s probably one of the hardest lessons to learn as an adult.

Your relationships only stay healthy if you understand the importance of uncomfortable conversations.

And people’s opinions really don’t matter as much as you think they do. Nothing is worth losing your peace over.

My 20s left me with water in my ears, scraped knees, the urge to dive deeper, and the realization that the ocean is huge. And honestly? Thank God I still have time. I’m ready to swim again.

Anxiety tricks you into feeling like something bad is happening right now, even when nothing is. Your body goes full survival mode. And you just... can't relax. Because how do you relax when your brain thinks you're in danger?

I've struggled with this since I hit adulthood. Still do.

The one thing that actually helps me is stupidly simple: I stop and tell myself: "you're safe. nothing bad is happening right now."

Because my anxiety almost never comes from what's actually happening. It comes from what I'm imagining might happen. And if it lives in my thoughts, that's where I can fight it.

Try it next time the wave hits. It won't fix everything. But it helps.

if taking medication gives you your life back, how could that ever be something to be ashamed of?!

Okay so I just found out I'm not weird, I'm just anxious apparently

okay so i just found out i'm not weird i'm just anxious apparently 💀

i literally cannot fall asleep without the tv on. not watching it. just… on. grey's anatomy has been playing in my bedroom every night for like 8 months and i live alone and it's embarrassing to admit but the silence genuinely scares me a little

looked it up last night and apparently it's an anxiety thing?? your brain can't handle silence because it just fills it with every thought you've been avoiding all day. so you reach for noise without even realizing that's what you're doing

and more than 1/3 of adults do this btw

I’m such an overthinker 😭
Like seriously, I think WAY too much. My brain literally never has an off button.

I’ll finish a meeting and immediately start thinking:
“Did I talk too much?” “Was my laugh too loud?” “Did they think I was being extra?”

And right before sleeping is the worstttt 😭 my brain suddenly decides to replay absolutely EVERYTHING that happened during my day, everything that’s gonna happen during the week, everything I probably shouldn’t have said.

I’ve literally spent HOURS trying to fall asleep because someone texted me “good morning” in a weird way and I started wondering if I did something wrong to them.

So a while ago one of my friends introduced me to melatonin gummies to help with anxiety/sleep and honestly? I always thought that stuff was fake advertising lmaooo

But why did those things actually hit SO well for me?! 😂
Whenever my routine gets super intense, I feel like they help calm my mind down at night at least enough for me to rest a little.

Obviously I’m also trying to work on it in other ways too working out has helped me A LOT and talking to my therapist too.

But I wanted to ask… has anyone else tried gummies before?
Any good brands you’d recommend?

10 weird signs your anxiety may have reached its limit

(and no, it's not "all in your head") 🤍

For the longest time, I genuinely thought all of this was just "in my head."

I kept telling myself I was being dramatic, lazy, too sensitive, or simply overthinking everything.

But then I started noticing patterns. The random body pain. The brain fog. Feeling overwhelmed in crowded places. Being exhausted all day but unable to sleep at night.

And honestly? Having a space like this especially communities like Anxiety's where people can openly share their experiences helped me understand myself a little better and feel less alone in all of this.

So… here are the facts I related to the most:

1 - Your memory feels like it "shut down." You forget simple words or even what you were about to do.

2 - The sound of someone chewing or repetitive noises suddenly make you irrationally angry.

3 - You feel weird "zaps" in your head or pressure, like you're wearing a tight headband.

4 - Your body gets itchy for no reason, or random skin flare-ups start appearing.

5 - You feel like you might faint or lose control in crowded places or under bright lights.

6 - Your vision feels "off," like you're seeing the world through plastic or inside a dream. (dissociation)

7 - Excessive yawning even when you're not sleepy. Your body may be trying to get more oxygen while your brain stays on high alert.

8 - Constant pain, especially muscle tension, like your body never fully relaxes.

9 - You feel exhausted all day, but the second you lie down your brain starts downloading every problem in the universe.

10 - A constant need to isolate yourself. Sometimes socializing can feel physically painful.

If you've been feeling some of these lately, you're not dramatic and you're definitely not alone 🌸 Which one of these hit you the hardest? Drop it in the comments 👇🏼👇🏼 let's talk about it