How can I save my relationship?
I (27)M have been with 26(F) for 4 and half a years and I didn’t know until today that she still feels upset and upset with herself about the early stages of our relationship. Just to clarify sorry we aren’t married. I take full responsibility for my actions and mistakes that I sexually coerced her into giving me oral. I didn’t know at the time what I was doing was wrong but no matter what I can’t forgive myself and I am definitely the wrong. I researched a lot about this and how to fix this and to never let anything like that happen again. I truly love her to death and I need to save this relationship. She says that since that day she still thinks about it and struggles with sexual things we do. My intent is not to fix sexual issues, I can go my whole life without having sex again I just truly love her and want to help her fix this. I know IATA and I deserve all the hate but I just want to help her and save this relationship. I’m not an evil person she credits me to saving her life as she had mental and suicidal issues before meeting me. I’m not holding that as something or anything but I sincerely honest to go truly love her will do anything to make her happy and I want to save our relationship. I need help i don’t know what to do, is sex therapy the best or speaking to a psychologist. I feel so terrible as I should, I just want to fix this I recognise and accept I did the wrong things and I am trying to find and research everything I can do to save us but especially her please help me. I want to find a solution so that we can still be both together. Is giving her time without contact for a week or two good idea as well? Give her lot of space?