u/Idkiamconfusedd

So long story short I manifested my bf from ethnicity to his entire personality through subliminals to how he treats me. He treated me like a queen bought me flowers loved me soo much he would cry when I cried like his happiness depended on me!! Then this month I used to kind of like verbally talk a lot of bs to him it got to the point I was entirely blank and I just used to throw whatever came in my mouth “I hate you ur unlucky I wish I never met you you’re shit” this is nothing i said far worse things to him he never said one single bad word to me. So i broke up w him right he texted another girl… i believed in my manifestation cause i did manifest him but idk how did it get to this point… ik I shouldn’t have taken him for granted or verbally abused him. He did beg me for his forgiveness but i still can’t believe that happened to me is there any way i can bring his old self back..? So do yall think i caused it???

So me(19f) and my bf (19m) been having communication issues this month. We’ve been in a very loving relationship for 1 year 6 months. I was constantly angry with him I didn’t really value his wants and ig I was kind of dominant in this relationship. Pls don’t judge I am trying to make myself better. So I used to mock him throw insults at him and talked a lot of nonsense… which now I see is bad and he didn’t say anything back just sorry. It went for days I said a lot of things to him I mocked him a lot about his past aswell. So that day we separated but got back again he then texted another girl and started lying about everything to her he for he texted her for 3 more days. He begged me for forgiveness.. and honestly I see how we’re both wrong in our ways. I made him feel unsafe and unwanted and he started seeking sympathy or some form of love. My friends said that it was partly my fault too and to give him another chance. He’s trying his best rn and has told me he would never do Smt like that again. And me too I have been controlling my anger. Ik I may have partially caused his burn out but idk if forgiveness is the right thing? Cause I do love him a lot and wanna try but I am having crazy trust issues. Please give me some insight he’s putting in a lot of efforts.. he is the best man I have been with I just couldn’t see it. He did ask for forgiveness I just don’t know anymore..idk if I can trust him again. And I just need honesty advice because I am giving my best effort here for change!! And I don’t wanna get stuck around if he won’t change… do guys like him change ?

So me(19f) and my bf (19m) been having communication issues this month. We’ve been in a very loving relationship for 1 year 6 months. I was constantly angry with him I didn’t really value his wants and ig I was kind of dominant in this relationship. Pls don’t judge I am trying to make myself better. So I used to mock him throw insults at him and talked a lot of nonsense… which now I see is bad and he didn’t say anything back just sorry. It went for days I said a lot of things to him I mocked him a lot about his past aswell. So that day we separated but got back again he then texted another girl and started lying about everything to her he for he texted her for 3 more days. He begged me for forgiveness.. and honestly I see how we’re both wrong in our ways. I made him feel unsafe and unwanted and he started seeking sympathy or some form of love. My friends said that it was partly my fault too and to give him another chance. He’s trying good rn and has told me he would never do Smt like that again. And me too I have been controlling my anger. Ik I may have partially caused his burn out but idk if forgiveness is the right thing? Cause I do love him a lot and wanna try but I am having crazy trust issues. Please give me some insight he’s putting in a lot of efforts.. he is the best man I have been with I just couldn’t see it. He did ask for forgiveness I just don’t know anymore..idk if I can trust him again. And I just need honesty advice because I am giving my best effort here for change!! And I don’t wanna get stuck around if he won’t change… do guys like him change ?