u/Igloo-369

We have tried the lifestyle since 2017. We didn't like the scene where we live. We had some experience and played a bit. We had a baby and for the last three years didn't do anything.
We talk about it while making out, and it's obvious that the lady might be willing to do but not in the country we live in. What can i do to excite her about it again, especially that it had a wonderful effect on her mentality (happy) and glowing most of the time. Sometimes i think of maybe asking a guy to flirt with her online, she used to enjoy it. But she's too deep, and like connection with interesting mature thinking people.
Any advice?