Did my bf cheat on me?
My boyfriend just tested positive for chlamydia and I genuinely don’t know what to think.
We’ve been together 8 months. For most of the relationship we had unprotected sex very frequently (like every other day). I tested negative in October and again on May 5. We only recently started using condoms consistently over the last month.
My doctor told me vaginal swab testing is >95% accurate and that it’s possible he had it and never transmitted it to me, but she also said there’s no way to know for sure when he got it.
I’m trying to understand from a realistic perspective, does this timeline sound believable without cheating, or does it sound more likely that this was a recent exposure?
Edit: He also said he tested negative early last year while in a relationship with his ex before we got together and claims he’s had no other partners since.