Whom to follow in regards of marriage?
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah WA barakatuh.
These few years since i was 16, i have seen a rise in shuyukh advocating early marriage. Pretty sure most od the audience has seen and heard about it. Marrying early (post-18 yrs) is a very noble deed. But there are some shuyukh who also advice not to marry your daughter in homes where the best match for the girl is elsewhere mosly financial conditions. That also includes financial stabilty.
1.Now i want to know, how is it practical to marry early when majority of the young men are unemployed.
2.Islam encouraged marriage. Allah promise us sustenance and an increase in rizq.after marrying. Why don't parents follow that in majority.
From where i come from, it's impossible for even talking about marriage before 25 for a man. It usually involves wounding of family ties if someone takes that step. Moreover backbiting about the new couple.
And how can fathers give their daughters to men who are building themselves up. And i mean that includes studying in their uni.
I want to follow Islam in this..fully..
(Sorry this became a half-rant and half question, pardon me)