u/Ill-Bath-8986

I think my girlfriend (20f) doesn’t love me (m18) anymore

Me and my girlfriend had a great relationship until she got home from college. We’ve gone on multiple dates and she told me she loved me first. I’ve given her money and gifts without any of that being reciprocated because I love her. Recently she hasn’t had time to see me even tho she isn’t working and I am. I told her I don’t want to have limited time with her. She tells me that she doesn’t want to see me as much cause she’d get bored. She wants to miss me. We also talked about having sex for the first time. For months it’s been talked about. We’ve had multiple opportunities to do it and she told me she’s not in the mood every time. One day she finally told me she’s been celibate for months. Longer than we have been dating. I was confused because she talked about wanting to do it but just revealed this. She was upset because I kept mentioning wanting to have sex. I told her I was sorry and respected her wishes. Now we barely talk as much and she said I made her feel a certain way. Yesterday we had a discussion and I asked why I have to beg for communication. She said well stop asking for it. She said the more she has to feel like she has to do something, she won’t do it. Let her communicate on her own or when she’s ready. I told her you won’t hear from me unless you speak to me. She replied back with ok. Is she not in love anymore?

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u/Ill-Bath-8986 — 19 days ago