I'm currently knitting this colourwork cat sock and wondering about making the pair mismatched on purpose. What do you all think?
A. No, don't be weird. Make them both the same.
B. Yes, but not too different. Make the second sock with purple cats instead of grey, but still have the purple toe, heel and cuff.
C. Completely flip the colours so just the cats are purple and the rest is grey for the second.
I posted about these a while ago asking for heel and gusset advice and promised an update. I do not believe anyone remembers but here is the update anyway!! I am very proud of them and they took me ages!
Made with Drops Fabel, I used up scraps from my stash for the colours (red, rust and mustard) and almost a whole ball of wheat for the background.
The pattern is self-drafted using a chart from Alterknit Stitch Dictionary, the chart is called Cottonwood.
Talk to me about your all over colourwork socks that you've knit from the toe up.
I am currently working on a pair (pictured) but I cannot decide whether to do side gussets or a sole gusset.
I am not even sure whether I need a gusset as I've gone up a needle size and increased my stitch count. I usually need 64st and I don't add a gusset as I don't have a high instep. I'm working these as 72st and after the toe I went a size up on needles, that's fitting nicely so far but I'm only half way up my foot..
If I decide to do a gusset, I am also struggling to work out how to return to my original stitch count on the other side of the heel.
I was going to do a german short row heel but if I do a sole gusset does that mean I'll need a mirrored triangle of decreases at the back of the leg?
Thank you all in advance 🥰
My daughters hair is getting quite long and I love it!! But it seems to want to settle without any parting so it's all laying towards her face and over her eyes.
I have tried a few things to get it out of her way so she can see but nothing seems to work.
I've tried parting it when drying it after a bath but by morning it's all flat to the front again. I do try putting it up with hair ties, but she is in it straight away and pulling it all out. I've also tried an alice band but she pulled it the wrong way and snapped it within 10mins.
I recently found I could comb it to the sides with a little leave-in conditioner and that holds for maybe 30 mins without going greasy but she's very active and it needs to be re-done a lot!
My husband has suggested that I just cut a fringe, but I'm not ready for that! I was hoping to let it grow but it's doing some awkward things right now.
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Where we used to live we had a routine of going to the local park which was fenced and safe. We went almost everyday from when she started taking steps at about 1 year. As it was safe I never expected her to hold my hand, I'd carry her there and back.
We recently moved house and we're in a new city. It's very different and I started using the pram more as it felt less safe. She won't hold my hand because it's not something we've practiced and she wants to walk because I used to let her but I know she hasn't got the skills to stay close or look out for danger.
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My 18mo seems very keen to get out of the pram when we go out for walks now. She's a very good walker and can keep up with us fine, she also has good language and can understand basic instructions but she doesn't have any impulse control, gets very excited about everything and she doesn't hold hands with us.
I'm looking for advice on how to manage this stage and what methods helped you keep your young toddlers walking with you. I'm also wondering if you can critique what happened yesterday as I'm thinking it over and wondering if I was a bit harsh on her and my husband...
We tried letting her out while on a walk but we struggled. Even though the path was in a scenic area and lots of families were out and about the track was also used by cyclists and cars. We warned her when we needed to move out of the way and we crouched with her to hold her safely at the edge but she wriggled and struggled so much and I was worried about safety.
I tried giving her clear instructions, I tried picking her up and in the end I gave her one warning to say she'd have to go back in the pram if she wasn't safe around the cars. I stayed calm even though I felt self conscious of other parents and we were the only ones having trouble with our LO. I insisted we be consistent and follow through even though my husband was sure it was all fine and was interfering with the process.
She got upset and was crying as I put her back in the pram but I explained why, my husband was trying to say he'd carry her but I told him no, she'd only wriggle out of his arms and I suggested if he couldn't manage her crying he could walk ahead of us. She calmed down within about 5mins of me pushing the pram and then when she was calm I crouched down and spoke to her a little about what happened and I ended with "we're still having a lovely day, let's find somewhere to have lunch".
I was trying so hard to follow an approach that felt consistent and fair with reconciliation after. I have talked to my husband since and he said he was panicking, he didn't think she'd calm down and he was worried about judgy parents. But he also said he thought he was doing fine and that I wasn't giving him a chance. I said I understood but that I couldn't parent them both. I said that the approach was working and I needed him to follow through.
I'm now second guessing myself and thought maybe I was a bit harsh on him as he is an active parent, but he's working a lot so I'm figuring out this toddler malarky and having to pass on the updated approaches. Maybe I was too strong with our daughter as she's still young. There could have been a middle ground where she could have walked for longer as she did love her taste of freedom but I'm not sure how that would look, especially when there are safety concerns.