35 [F4A] NY - looking to date poly folks who are available for future nesting partnership
35 y/o NYC-based bi/pansexual white cis woman, started dating polyamorously about 10 years ago when I was single, and I identify with relationship anarchy more than polyamory. I am looking to date local 28-43ish y/o non-monogamous/RA folks who are available for eventual nesting partnership. I don't want to rush into an NP situation, but I also do want to be specific about what I want and use my time accordingly :) Also, if you happen to know any in-person speed-dating-style meetups for this very niche population lol, I would welcome the intel!
About me: overall I'm very....normal? I think my looks are pretty conventional, and my style is chapstick/sporty femme. I'm an artist, and I love theater, movies, books, music, gardening, road trips, card games, and sports. I have a nice amount of friends and community groups I'm very invested in. I don't smoke cigs or vape nicotine, but I am friendly with weed + occasional psychedelics, mdma, k. kink-friendly, but not interested a kink-centric partnership.
I don't want to get married (open to marriage in certain circumstances, like as a temporary/logistical commitment for a partner's immigration, healthcare, etc.), and I'm leaning childfree, have a long-term non-nesting partner, and am out as queer/poly, including with my family.
If this resonates, DM me with a little bit about yourself!