How do you politely let a guy know
EDIT: okay clearly most people lack critical reading skills, so I'll spell it out for the illiterate. I have never told guys their dick are small. Im just wondering if I should keep making up reasons to end the relationship rather than telling them the truth.
...that his dick is small. A few times in the past I would be exchanging nudes/videos with people I go on dates with. Sex is an important part of the relationship for me, and Im old enough/had enough experience to know that a small/skinny dick will never do it for me. The problem comes when I see the video or pics from the guy and they are small, I dont know how to let them down gently. So far I just go on another date with them where I pay for some food and tell them some bullshit reason why Im no longer interested.
I think its very damaging to a guy's self esteem to know they are being rejected for their size. Is that the case? As a guy would you rather be told the real reason? Any suggestion how this can be handled better?