
Old Hoboken
This is an old Hoboken photo that was shared in one of the Old Hoboken Facebook groups. This comes from my buddy ducky, who’s in the middle he always had a camera on him.
To me, this picture is the epitome of Hoboken in the 1980s.
I knew every single guy in this picture—some personally, others just by face—but that’s how Hoboken was back then. Everybody knew everybody in one way or another.
Most of these guys hung around Elysian Park, but the truth is they were everywhere. Elysian was just one of the places everybody met up. On any summer day, there could easily be 200 or 300 kids there—little kids, teenagers, older guys—all mixed together. Every day something was happening. You’d see basketball games, girls hanging around, music playing, people laughing, arguing, pulling pranks, and yes…sometimes trouble. It was chaos at times, but it was our chaos.
People today like to remember the old days through rose-colored glasses.
The truth is, Hoboken was a rough little town. We had neighborhood crews, fights, kids trying to prove themselves, and plenty of mistakes along the way. It wasn’t perfect, and anybody who tells you it was is probably forgetting a few things.
But if there was one thing Hoboken had, it was heart.
Real heart.
I know every town likes to say that, and maybe every old neighborhood feels that way. But there was something about Hoboken that always felt different to me. We lived on top of one another. Everybody knew your parents, your grandparents, your brothers and sisters. If you got into trouble, your mother usually knew before you got home. If someone got sick, people brought food. If somebody passed away, the churches were packed. If a family was struggling, the neighborhood quietly found a way to help. You weren’t just living next to people—you were living with them.
Out of respect for these guys and their families, I won’t start naming names or telling anyone else’s story. Sadly, three of the guys in this picture passed away far too young. The others built good lives. Some own successful businesses, some raised great families, and most of them still call Hoboken home.
One thing people younger than us might not realize is that this is what a lot of the neighborhood boy crews looked like back then.
It wasn’t like the movies where it was Italians against Puerto Ricans or Black against white. That wasn’t my experience growing up. Most of the time it was block against block, park against park, or one group of neighborhood kids against another. You’d have kids from Columbus Park beefing with kids from Elysian, or one block having problems with another. That’s just how it was.
I know I’ve talked about the fights before, and I’ve seen a few comments bring them up too. I’m not glorifying any of it—it was simply part of the culture we grew up in.
There was street fighting all the time. This wasn’t today’s Washington Street with bar crawls and people coming in from all over New Jersey. Back then, Washington Street belonged to the neighborhood. There were crews on just about every corner.
Growing up, we were always getting into fights with kids from Jersey City. We had our share of run-ins with kids from Weehawken, North Bergen, and Union City too. It felt like we were fighting somebody from somewhere in Hudson County every other weekend. That’s just the way it was growing up in Hoboken during that time.
But when I look at this picture, I don’t think about the fights. I think about the people. I think about the friendships that lasted decades, the summers in Elysian Park, the laughs, the memories, and a neighborhood where people genuinely looked out for one another. I think about the guys we lost far too soon, and I’m grateful so many others are still here living good lives in the town they grew up in. To most people, this is just an old photograph. To me, it’s a piece of Hoboken history and a reminder of a little mile-square city that wasn’t rich, wasn’t polished, and wasn’t always easy—but it had a soul, it had character, it had loyalty, and most of all, it had heart.
I know this is long just came across this photo of childhood friends. Hope you enjoyed!