Avoiding Sex Due To Lack of Oral Skills (and yes I've read the FAQ)
I (19f) have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months now and I really struggle with blowjobs. I was a virgin before him for the record. With oral I just can't get him to cum and the only times he has is when he's helping (ex: I'm tonguing under and sucking the head while he jacks himself off). I've read all the advice in the FAQ I've read tutorials I've watched videos I've tried all the techniques I'm physically capable of (no deepthroating yet lol).
I feel really insecure about my inability to make him cum to the extent that I've been avoiding sex altogether and I'm just at a loss for what to do at this point. I've asked him about it and he's somehow not a helpful resource.
Has anyone had this experience before? Does anyone have any advice that isn't in the FAQ? Techniques or mental stuff or some product or toy or something that may help or really anything?
TLDR: Can't make my bf cum with oral and I've tried all the advice I've read on here and elsewhere. Completely ruining my confidence. Help!