So this is like my 3rd or 4th day over here and I just started crying the second I got on my break. I know it takes time to learn and that you won’t get stuff correct every time but I just feel like a I’ll burden I feel like I’m in the way. My co-workers are amazing and sweet but I feel like they might secretly hate me for being so stupid. I can’t even remember the shots or pumps or anything.
Okay, so today is my first day and I already feel so stupid. I keep forgetting how many shots of what and the next step of making drinks and I just feel really bad and stupid because my TL is having to help me a lot.
So I’m transferring to Starbucks soon! Any tips? Anything specific I need to wear or have on me??
So my girlfriend (23 F) has been literally constantly saying to me (18 F) that “I’m happy it’s only me and you” and that “I’m happy that you don’t talk to anyone else” and “im happy I’m your only friend” which she gets upset about me having ANY friends. She literally doesn’t want me to have any friends at all. Yet she can go around and talk to who ever. She literally will get upset and throw a fit if I ever talk to anyone else and constantly is asking “what’s that??” When my phone goes off. which I get insecurity but this girl is reassured EVERYDAY about shit, and I’m tired, really tired. I’m scared to leave her at this point.
So I’ve known my Gf (23 F) since I was 11. I’m currently 18 as of now, and we’re still dating, and have been since I was 12/13. We always had the same friends and everything. But she’s recently become more jealous and controlling. It’s fine whenever she makes friends and shit and hangs out with them. But whenever I get friends she always thinks I’m going to find someone better or that I’m cheating and I’m going to leave here and she gets REALLY upset and I feel scared to tell her I have friends and that I’m going to hang out with them….its gotten to the point that she’s upset I hang out with family. Could this be deemed toxic??
So my gf 23F has insane jealousy issues. I, 18F, had asked her to hang out with a friend from work, who is also female…but I clarified that she is in a very happy relationship and like a sister. My gf approved but also was constantly sending very sad toned messages. She’s constantly getting upset and jealous, she cries and always feels like she’s going to lose me to someone and I’m going to find someone else better ANY time I have friends. She just becomes self critical and it makes me feel like I can’t have friends without the fear of her being upset. Is this behavior normal or okay?? Is it toxic??