I want to ask a serious question. What is the actual difference between a religious person who does not act like it and a good person who is not religious at all? I see people who call themselves Christians but they are just pretending. They don't show love and they don't help others. Then I see people who don't care about labels, but they are kind, they take care of you, and they show real love in daily life.
I would choose the good person every single time. To me, a title is empty if your actions don't match your words. I would rather have a friend or a partner who is truly there for me than someone who just goes to church but doesn't bear any fruit. Why should a religious label matter more than how you actually treat people?