u/Illustrious-Cod6838

STBX suggested to 4th grade daughter she could look at other schools because she has been having a hard time in her current school. Never asked me beore making the suggestion, and before we re-capped the conversation I had with our daughter.

I told her in no uncertain terms that I (a teacher) completely disagree with her and basically wrote her a text that echoed our own situation of things getting hard and her quitting (and looking somewhere else...).

The divorce isn't even final and she's already trying to make huge decisions without me. Anyone else (obviously yes) encounter this kind of behavior if not specifically this situation? I feel like I have to die on this hill or else it will continue this way.