How did y’all know for sure you were aroace?
hey guys!! i’m 18F, and in the past maybe two months, i’ve started questioning whether i’m aro/ace or both. i consider myself bi, but when it comes to actually DATING someone and MARRYING someone, that makes me nauseous 😭 like the thought of needing to text the same person everyday and having to live with them makes me so uncomfortable. like i do NOT want to wake up to a “good morning how did you sleep 🥰” text like PLEASE don’t talk to me don’t bother me 😭. i’ve also ever had a normal crush on a guy, only limerence, and on a girl i’d have to be her friend first or something to crush on her. i was talking to my sister about this yesterday (who has a boyfriend) and i was like “idk how you do it, i’d get so annoyed at the person” and she literally said im like jaiden animations so..😭
my point is, how did you guys know you were aroace for sure?
edit: omg thank you guys these are so helpful and interesting!! 🫶🏼