u/IllustriousData8227

Im in my first real lesbian relationship. I know it’s a lesbian stereotype but my girlfriend is best friends with her ex from like 7 years ago. They text and call often which honestly I am chill with! But I can’t help but feel weird vibes sometimes. Like my gf is trying to get her attention in someway. I don’t ask too much about their relationship because I am not trying to pry too much and honesty I trust my gf. However, today I came across a package that my gf is sending her ex, it’s full of chocolates and a handmade silk robe. That is crossing a boundary for me. I raised it with her and she said that’s been sitting there for ages, I believe it actually hasn’t been. I just really do not feel like a priority at this moment. Can anyone else please tell me if this would also raise eyebrows for you?? I know I have my own insecurities and I am trying to heal and fix them.