AITA/ For ending a friendship over a wedding invite?
So backstory I have known said friend for a little over two years and we do a lot together she invites me out we go do a lot of things she calls me a lot and vice versa about things going on in our lives we are also living in same neighborhood. I’m a little weird I’m autistic and I know sometimes I speak my mind or feelings and have way different views in life than she does but I’m accepting and kool with her. Well she just got engaged and is planning a wedding with her Fiancé. Fiancé and I got along (or so I thought) and I even helped him with applying for Veteran Disability. Well when she announced her engagement I was excited for her I was asking when the wedding is and she said friends and family is invited and I thought that I was going to be invited. Also side note we are in a group friendship with friend H. So I thought we were both going to be invited since we are her closest friends right? Wrong! So every day for over a month been listening to wedding drama and helping her try on dresses and all of that. She said that we weren’t going to be invited and it was just going to be like 1-2 friends and mostly family because they are going to stay at the limit of 50 people. I’m kool with that right wasn’t upset at all at that. Well friend H randomly texted me one day asking if I was ok and I hadn’t spoken to her in a hot minute and was confused and carried on like normal. Well the friend getting married maybe a few days later told me her bridesmaid dropped out and she has to find someone else. I figured she’d get one of her other friends to do it. Instead come to find out she invited H and her husband instead of me and told me that it’s because her husband doesn’t want me there and that’s because he doesn’t like me because I’m weird. I never ever knew that he didn’t like me or thought bad things about me and refused for her to invite me and now I’m feeling not only hurt that she chose the other friend in our group to go beside me but also the fact her husband thinks that of me and idk how to feel because now it’s weird and now I really don’t wanna be friends cuz I feel like I just got used for the wedding stuff and now I’m not apart of it at all or even a thought. Her mom is even inviting friends that she doesn’t even know to her wedding and I feel like damn you can even let strangers come to your wedding but not even your best friend. I understand it’s her wedding and his and they can invite whoever but out of all people idk it just hurts. So ATA for wanting to not be friends?