My boyfriend and I are about to try 3somes
So my bf (22) and I (23) were talking about us having threesome with other people. He's been curious about it since last year and as someone who gets jealous really quickly, I turned his idea down.
Fast forward to this month, I've been thinking of how can I get back to my boyfriend because in our relationship I tend to notice that he is the only person that makes the adjustment, and I only adjust very rarely.
So I read and search about true couples that are doing threesomes. A lot of comments/posts about it were positive and they tend to love it, some makes their relationship stronger.
We set boundaries IF ever we will do threesome. He told me that he wants to do it with our mutual friend (no specific person in mind, just someone that both of us know) to make it easier and for safety purposes. Also we talked about exploring with other people, what I mean about that is we can now have sex with other people even when one of us is not present, all we need to do is ask the other partner about it and tell the story what happened afterwards (for more context, we are always honest with each other, we never had any secrets).
Do you have some advice about threesomes? Is it okay for us to explore in a young age about it? We always practice safe sex and in consistent use of PrEP. Does some of you guys had threesome while in a relationship? How does it affect your relationship and what are some of your boundaries? I want to learn more before we actually do it eventually. I want to prepare myself.