Still having s hard time moving on
I had 5 month relationship with a guy who i actually thought was really the sweetest. We never fought it was a good relationship. However, i notice quite a few emotional things with him early on such as him saying he thought i would eventually leave him for someone else. Saying he never will be able to make me happy even though i tried my best to reassure him constantly. I also know he was cheated on like 4 years ago and that seemed to have really affected him. Anyways he was the one who never wanted me to leave he always wanted me to stay longer. He told me i was the first girl in a long time he actually saw a future with he was very good to me and very consistent he was always stressed out and had a demanding job. But out of the blue about a month and half ago he was just like i have no feelings and is confused this isn’t going to work we are going to fight to much in the future ( we never fought) saying he didn’t think he had anything to offer. I obviously didn’t fight him on it and respected his decision but of course i still miss him. He told me when we broke up he doesn’t know if he is going to regret this. Does this seem like an avoidant person? I am debating on reaching out but i am just not sure at the moment on what went wrong or anyone go through something similar?