u/Illustrious_Pin4269

I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant. I 25F moved to a new state and met this guy 29M shortly after around Feb 2025 and fell for him quickly. I learned he had a 5 year old and a 8 month old by two diff women. He lied and said the baby was 2 years old but learned she was 8 months per the bm after she reached out me a month or so later.

The first few months he would be on and off with the 8m mother and having sex with her and I at the same time. I learned this from her coming forth to me. It became 2-3 months of me leaving him and trying to move on bc he kept dealing with the woman. I was vulnerable at one point and completely let him back in from June 2025 to December 2025. He did not come home one night in Dec and I left.

Today I learned that night, he was with the same bm. Him and I been on and off since Dec. I'm pregnant and she claims to be pregnant. I confronted him & he claims it's all a lie, he's trying to change, she got an abortions etc. We bonded heavily through Christ and all. I don't care. I left today & I'm defeated. I'm pregnant and thought that he was completely done with her before June when we became consistent. Im super vulnerable and need some words of encouragement. I'm not keeping this baby. I'm disgusted by him and her. The bm been on and off with this man for 4 years or so, what did I think? I've been a 2nd choice this whole time.

I have no kids and for the next several years will not date another man with children.