u/Illustrious_Sky_2890

▲ 25 r/inlaws

I have been putting up my my in laws smart ass and passive aggressive comments for years about me and my family, but now my daughters are older (7 and 5) I’ve realized when they look after them , they come home with comments about me and have this attitude like it’s “us vs me” kind of thing.

I have already had my husband have two talks with them about their behavior but it doesn’t seem to change them or deter them from making more comments. I don’t really want to cut them out

of my children’s lives but I feel like I have no other option. What should I do?

On a side note my husbands brother and wife have already cut my husbands family from seeing their children from the moment their children were born, which I thought was uncalled for and strange, and didn’t understand why until now…

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u/Illustrious_Sky_2890 — 22 days ago
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I have been putting up my my in laws smart ass and passive aggressive comments for years about me and my family, but now my daughters are older (7 and 5) I’ve realized when they look after them , they come home with comments about me and have this attitude like it’s “us vs me” kind of thing.

I have already had my husband have two talks with them about their behavior but it doesn’t seem to change them or deter them from making more comments. I don’t really want to cut them out

of my children’s lives but I feel like I have no other option. What should I do?

On a side note my husbands brother and wife have already cut my husbands family from seeing their children from the moment their children were born, which I thought was uncalled for and strange, and didn’t understand why until now…

TLDR

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u/Illustrious_Sky_2890 — 23 days ago