My roommate Jade and I have lived together for about eight months. Generally fine, no major issues, we split everything fairly and mostly stay out of each other's way.
About six weeks ago I noticed my moisturizer was running out faster than usual. I bought a new one and same thing happened. I didn't say anything at first because I wasn't sure, maybe I was just using more without realizing.
Then last week I came home early and saw Jade coming out of the bathroom with my vitamin C serum in her hand. She didn't see me at first. When she did she just kind of laughed and said "hope you don't mind, I ran out of mine." I said it was okay in the moment because I didn't know what else to say, but I've been thinking about it since and I actually do mind.
That serum was not cheap. Neither is the moisturizer. I'm not made of money and I budget specifically for this stuff because my skin has been a whole thing for years and I've finally found products that actually work. The idea that she's just been helping herself without asking, for weeks apparently, is bothering me more the longer I sit with it.
I want to just move my products to my room and not say anything. Jade is nice and I don't think she meant anything bad by it, she probably genuinely thought it was fine. But I also don't want to have the awkward conversation where I explain that I've been silently tracking my moisturizer usage for a month.
WIBTA for just quietly moving everything without bringing it up?