Girlfriend tells me she has a crush on someone else but still loves me
We’ve been dating for almost half a year, we had some disagreements recently. She told me when she was upset with us fighting she has been talking to a coworker and developed a crush on her. They’ve hang out a couple of times and only hugged. She said she chose me in the end and ended things with her. But now she is telling me she has been texting and calling her while still being in love with me. She said she is in self-destruction mode knowing I’m the one for her but still can’t help falling for someone else. This is my first lesbian relationship and she pursued me for the longest time. I came out to my parents while I was in the relationship with her. I truly thought she is the one but now I don’t understand her actions. I still love her but I can’t tolerate the idea she fell for someone she met for only a couple of weeks.