is it possible someone who popped up on PYMK is a stalker or just coincidence?
ik this is weird but it sent me into a whirlwind. i got traumatized a long time ago from some evil exes, and basically erased all social media except facebook and tiktok, yknow recipes and giggles. one of my exes blocked me a long time ago before i could get to it first, but nonetheless i deleted the conversations and changed my name, so that in case it wasn’t a block, it was them deleting their account so they couldn’t find me later on. i used a fake last name, and a different username on my tiktok. i refuse to get instagram or anything else. but after almost two years, he popped up in People You May Know. i panicked and squinted hard so that i couldn’t see his information and blocked him.
i dont have ANY mutual friends with him, i dont have his number if he even has one, i dont even say his name out loud because i’m afraid my phone is listening and is gonna pop him up (which i dont almost ever talk about him and i try to leave all that trauma stuff behind anyways)
so now i’m just worried he’s stalking me again. it is late and i got off a long shift so i know i could be paranoid, but if i haven’t looked him up in years or have almost ANY connection to him socially, why would he pop up? and just random information to throw in, my sister in law helped me make my account private ASAP, which i didn’t know was a thing on facebook.