My SIL doesn’t like me and I don’t care
Hi I’m 25F and I’m dating my 27M boyfriend. We have been together for five years and ever since my SIL doesn’t like me. My bf has one older sister from his dad side and two little sisters from his mom and one sister from both his parents that being his oldest sister 38F ( that we can name Molly) and my bf who is the only boy . When me and my bf got together his oldest sister try ever to find an excuse for our parents to not let us date.
You hear me right Molly works at a restaurant and had found out who my parents were and convinced them that her own brother was a horrible person and did not deserve me. While also convinced her own mother ( who my bf at the time live with) that I was a horrible person and didn’t deserve her brother. ( Yes she does talk bad about her own family as well)
I just thought she didn’t want me to hurt her brother ( my bf) since his last relationship did hurt him really bad. And I assumed that was the issue and told Molly I love my bf with everything and won’t do that to him. A little note my bf whole family mom,dad, all his siblings, and aunts and uncles and so on. Told me that she ruins her mouth and can not be trusted and isn’t afraid to black mail and lie to get what she wants and it got to the point that her family does believe her and leave her out of family gatherings because of her dram.
I live to ignore Molly but I’m tried of her running her mouth about me or my bf or her family confronted her every time she will claim that she was just upset and didn’t mean anything by it even if we call it bull. It got to the point she made up a lie about me and HER bf ( Who she not only is cheating on but also accuse him of trying to sleep with me.) that we were dating in secret.
I finally put my foot down and told her she is childish and I don’t want to be apart of whatever drama world that she has going on and to leave me out of it. That that work no she still continues to spread false info about me and to her friends who believe her and there’s no use of saying anything because she does not care what people think or say about her not even family or friends. I pry that she finds the help she needs but this is ridiculous.