AIO Girlfriend of 7 years has a new bf 2 weeks after we ended it.
My ex and I ended things about a month ago. It had been a slow end. Let me preface by saying I had my fair hand in the breakup as much as she did. So not trying to put it all on her. Our whole relationship she always had some weird trust issues with me and other women. Specifically the women I worked with. Never cheated or gave her a reason to not trust me. She said it was because of her ex and how he cheated on her consistently.
About three months ago we started to really disconnect. We will face time every morning on our drive to work and towards the end she wasn’t very talkative. Some days I would understand why she wasn’t. She got invited to a wedding and she didn’t invite me since it was a spur of the moment wedding ( more of an elopement). After the wedding she became really distant and I would try to make conversation about honestly anything. About two weeks after the wedding the conversation came up that I brought up which was “ are you happy with me “. She said she was very happy with me. I told her I didn’t think she was because of how distant I felt she had become and how much more argumentative she became when it came to the women I worked I with.
We ended it and a good friend of hers told me that she had a bf two weeks after we had broken up as I’m still reeling from the break up.
I called her out on it and asked how long he had been around and if she was ever really worried about the women at my work or if it was just a guilty conscience.
She met this guy at the wedding and they had been talking the whole time prior to our break up. I don’t know if I’m feeling this fucked up over her because I always thought someone else was a round or because how quick she moved on how I feel like I was just a place holder.
Edit: I appreciate everyone’s words good or bad. Thank you all
Edit #2. I am not without fault as to why we broke up. Obviously it takes two people for a relationship to end in any regard. Could I have been a better in certain aspects yea of course. This post was to see if I was crazy to think she always had someone else there. I expressed to her before we broke up that I thought someone else was there lurking. Full transparency here. “7 years with no ring”. I had a ring and asked her parents for her hand in marriage. It started to deteriorate after I bought the ring. Some people on here think I was out here wasting her time.