Olá, pessoal!Estou com viagem marcada para Paris agora em maio e meu objetivo é fugir um pouco do roteiro óbvio. Queria recomendações de quem vive ou já visitou sobre aqueles lugares que não aparecem na primeira página dos guias, mas que têm uma alma única: lugares para comer, parques, livrarias, antiquários, ruazinhas, coisas que poucas pessoas valorizam. Se tiverem alguma pérola escondida, por favor compartilhem.
I’m new here and I’m using a translator. I’ve been in a relationship (somewhere between dating and marriage) for a little over a year. We usually get along great, but I’ve noticed that every single argument we have always ends up being my fault. He was my "first" in every sense.
I don’t know how to explain it, but I feel like my brain isn't working right lately. There have been several episodes:
Once, he wanted to travel with a female friend. He didn't go and said he told her they should do it another time, but he only told me this after two days of intense arguing.
Another time, he told me he went with a friend to a public gay sex cruising spot.
I found a folder on his computer with photos of a female friend in bikinis and suggestive poses.
He tells me that "hot women will always exist" and that I just think differently than him.
There are other things that might seem like small or insignificant details, but they hurt me. The issue is that I always end up crying a lot during these arguments and apologizing just for questioning him. During these fights, he calls me controlling, says I’m pushing his friends away, and that I try to run the relationship. When the argument ends, he stops speaking to me entirely (the silent treatment), and I feel completely isolated in my own home.
I don’t see myself that way; I would never do those things to him. Lately, I’ve been reading about being abusive, narcissistic, or toxic because I’m starting to believe that I am the problem. I moved to a different country to be with him; I left my family, my friends, and my job. I am alone here—I only have him.
Please, I need some friendly advice. I feel so deeply hurt.