TRO filed against me, primary custody, false claims
me, and my ex have had a rough past no physical or domestic violence of any sort other night we had a small quick bickering match out front, but she claims that I kicked her car and dented her door and she went and filed harassment and criminal mischief charges. Police ended up coming to my house finding no probable cause since they left within about 2 to 3 minutes I did review my video and surveillance cameras, and there’s no signs of any evidence she could use for that since she already went to the police and obviously I would’ve been arrested for that. I have primary residency of my daughter for now almost 4 years and she’s been barely in her life, and I have proof of all of this as well as my own mother, I had a TRO filed against me for this incident the other night and then unfortunately a month and a half prior I was charged with a DUI with a minor and drug possession, but it was small amount. Didn’t even realize I had it on me and my BAC was literally a hair over the legal limit, and I have receipt proof of one drink. I got the hearing notice from my other attorney for this and he’s claiming this will be most likely dismissed and just brought to PTI and I’ve been peeing queen ever since that charge happened, but with all of that said my daughter has live with me primarily for four years now and she has been uprooted from her home and I have no contact with her. I tried appealing this on my own was denied and then I tried appealing it with my lawyer and I got denied pretty much the day after so now we’re waiting on the adjourn date for the court hearing and my 4 1/2 year-old daughter suffering from false allegations of her mother. I’ve never threatened or tried to harm her in anyway and I have all proof of text messages. it’s pretty much just back-and-forth name-calling and even at times her describing her bipolar disorder and how she’s on and off her medication, CPS obviously was involved and found no signs of danger evidence of abuse or drug abuse, I have an attorney for this matter, but I would like to see some outside opinions on this with all these charges combined. I have zero criminal drug or violence history my goal is to have this TRO dismissed and my caseworker also said that an FRO is extremely difficult to obtain due to the lack of physical abuse or harm, she is now alienating my daughter, and it’s awful to think about, what could I expect when I go to my hearing? My goal is to reestablish the parenting order we have and then eventually right after file for full custody with visitation as my daughter has remained primarily overnight at my home for the last three years and yes me, my mother and my father all have proof of this so there’s no question about it.