u/Imaginary-Survey6367

Good evening everyone,

I hope you're doing good.

Tell me, where is everyone finding like-minded folk? I'm 37, fem if I have to specify, in NYC, and looking for someone who also wants something causal. Stud or fem, but dominant is a must. I'm more on the shy side but I'm in a season where I don't want to deny myself intimacy just because I'm not in a relationship, and I also definitely don't have the capacity for dating. Respect yes, a relationship no.

I also don't care for all these queer parties. They run super young and they're mostly full of couples.

Any advice?