u/Imaginary-meownster

I’ve been called elegant or demure by other women before. I used to think they were complimenting me but I’m not sure now. They always end up not liking me or teasing me in more obvious ways. I can never tell with women. I’m autistic but I know ppl don’t always mean what they say. So now I’m on guard when I hear stuff like that. I just don’t understand why they would call me that if they don’t mean it.

I also don’t think I am. I’m just a bit more quiet and stiff around ppl I don’t know. It takes me like 3 months to get used to people and even consider them as friends. My personality doesn’t really come out fully until then, so I’m guessing that’s why they think that.