Hello all
From my old post about coming back to India. Now, I moved back about 2 months before to Chennai joined product based company as PO it's going ok
Regarding getting back into the society, especially for arrange marriage stuff Girls throw things like "you should get adjusted here without any problems in India because you were born here".
But I spent my prime age 24-29 in Germany , just returned two months back. I could speak C1 German, had a TUM degree. worked in German companies, respected everybody's boundaries, time and had a different thinking totally. My personal music journey was also great there.
Here, I feel the Tamil girls have so narrow thoughts they throw this thing to me, I try to explain and we end up in a wrong foot
Then I feel she doesn't understand me basically. I couldn't relate to her or she couldn't relate or respect my view at all.
How should I tackle? I feel seriously I should have married a German now. Back then,I was like my family, my culture, my business, my parents..
But talking to these girls have fucked me so much. I am fine with any girl who matches my values.
How should I tackle here?
Thanks in advance