u/ImaginationMagic

There is slight context to this. I advise you read my other post (click my profile to see it. Idk how to link it).

So, 14, a sister I love dearly, is at it again. This time, it wasn’t even my fault.

Context before the story: 14 is a spoiled butt who never appreciated me for anything I do. She had a trip and wanted to make friendship bracelets but was short for some beads she wanted to buy. I told her I’ll buy them if she makes me one. She says okay and we move on from there.

Yesterday was a basic day except I had a problem. My brain was so exhausted that I forgot to eat before my shift. I get snacks, so I knew I was partially covered and my shifts are 4 hours long. When I got to work however, my stomach was doing flips. I was awake enough to realize I was super hungry and I was basically doubling over in hunger. My mom and I work in the same building so I ask her if she has anything bigger to eat. She tells me that she has Chick-fil-A in her microwave and that I can eat it. Okay cool. Heat it up and eat it. That’s where the mistake was. Eating Chick-fil-A.

I ran an errand a couple of hours after a super exhausting day at work yesterday, and 14 wanted to tag along. I told her no because 5, our younger equally spoiled sister, was crying about sleeping alone. I was supposed to get food but I didn’t because I was really that irritated. I literally got a large Sprite from the gas station.

Turns out, Mom originally bought it for 14, but 14 didn’t know until Mom told her what happened. She got mad, and said she wasn’t making my bracelet anymore. She then proceeded to text me about the whole thing, telling me how I wasn’t getting the bracelet and how rude I’ve been for not letting her go with me. Now I’m confused on where the anger was coming from, but I wasn’t in my right mind either. I haven’t been getting a lot of sleep recently, so I sucked at processing any information and it was like 8 in the morning when this happened.

Now I’m mad because I bought the beads so she can make memories with her friends, and I was denied a bracelet because I didn’t take her with me. I talked to my mom about it, and she understood everything since she had both sides. She said that 14 had no right to treat me like that, especially because I didn’t know the food was originally hers. If I knew it was hers, I wouldn’t have eaten it at all. I haven’t talked to her about it, partially because I’m worried that talking to her one-on-one will make things worse. Mom said that she will talk to us together about it so I’ll update ya when that happens. I know I vowed to stop helping 14 with things but truly, this finalized it. Unless it’s her birthday or a major event, 14 will never get anything from me unless I’m really feeling kind that day. I hate that she’s treating me like this, especially when I know she can be a nice kid.

Am I wrong for hating this?