Low effort convos hit different. It’s so refreshing when there’s no pressure, no reply timelines, and no "hey you're ghosting me" when life happens.
Open up, close up, talk or not, you’ll find me, I’ll find you. Same place, different times. Or maybe same time, if luck allows
An appreciation post.
That's low of you some guys exposing others btw and the catfishes.
After a failed quest to find love on Reddit, I’ve resigned to the sidelines to just live life as it comes. I was no better than those who ghosted; I won't pretend I'm above it. Hell, I’ll slander ghosting and hang it up for display.
I’m tired. I'm done relying on luck from all of this. Hookups are easy enough, but even those bounce. Love and friendship? My love, utachoka huku DM. Nimechoka kutafuta na small talks mingi za "hey, hey, hey" neigh, we are not horses.
Wave your white flag, beloved. All the best to those still trying to find love. It’s not just Reddit, there’s a crisis out there, or maybe just a personal one of my own. Either way, I might as well save my love for myself.
I might as well turn into my knight and shining armour. Sina energy.
I've jumped across Reddit, seen lots of complaints, and even experienced it.
I don't deny that this platform is anonymous and kinky people live here.
I'm looking for a guy. I'm a 22F, 5’5, which is about average, I appreciate one who's a bit taller.
Looking for an asexual guy. I'm asexual too, and it's better that way, I don't want it to feel like an FWB situation and lavender etc.
I don't mind an age gap. My preference is someone 26+ older.
Serious guys only.
I'm an ambivert. I love the outdoors and reading.
I'm a bit into geopolitics and philosophy, and lately I've been delving into articles covering ikigai, etc.
For the guy:
Be considerate (I believe consideration is the highest form of love). (A bit aromatic but we will work this out.)
Be easy on the eyes.
Have a source of income (before you ask, yes, I have mine too; I'm a bit hypergamous, one who's a bit ahead of me sounds okay).
Good communicator.
5 senses at least.
Intentional (Chivarlous on the side that's plus not a must.)
Consistent.
Before you stone me, don't romanticize struggle. A man should make my life easier, not harder.
If this resonates with you, hit me up. If you are looking for an FWB, ONS, or to exchange nudes, don't hit me up.
DM with the intention of a meetup eventually; I'm not looking for a long texting slow-burn thing. I don't mind it, but I prefer talking to someone physically, low effort, not crazy dinner dates and all, we will figure it out.
If you can share some pieces, articles or theories that you've been getting into, that sounds perfect. Let's dissect it all. Low pressure.