Was I the petty one? What should I do
I had a friendship breakup last fall when I realized one of my close friends had entirely stopped interacting with me, unfollowed my second account where i mostly posted, and acted strange and distant around me.
I had a visceral response to that because I hate feeling unwanted and like I'm infringing. I shot her a text over Instagram telling her what I noticed and if something was up.
She responded very vaguely and said she was just uncomfortable following people's spam accounts. That was weird cuz she'd been the one to send me a follow request, and she also removed me from her spam.
This is when I reacted poorly. I unfollowed her main account, and also confided in my best friend about the situation. My bsf also unfollowed her (which i didn't tell her to do and made things way more complicated).
Anyway she sent me a long text saying she didn't mean anything by it, that she was busy and had her own problems, and she didn't mean to be distant. She turned it on me saying I was complaining about having a lot to do and she didn't wanna bother me.
Anyway she ended the text by saying "seek help", which she later edited, but I still saw. It really hurt my feelings and I didn't respond.
She has had some mental health issues in the past, and I know she is pretty lonely. I really dont want her to fall into a dark place because of me. I've been thinking of texting her and reconnecting (not to besties again, but cordial).
I feel like the whole thing was really stupid and petty.