u/Immediate-Effect9786

Told I need to be more grateful

I spoke to my husband, told him how I’m feeling and that I’m unhappy in our marriage. I previously posted how I’m the only one working, cooking and cleaning in the household. It goes on to him getting upset when I go out and see my family.

This weekend I decided it’s time to get things off my chest. I told him I’m unhappy in our marriage and thinking separation is something I’ve considered. His response was for me to be more grateful of our relationship & maybe I need some hobbies. He completely missed the point. I think I’ll revisit the entire conversation. I’m finding it so hard to approach the topic and not sure how to even go about it at this point.

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u/Immediate-Effect9786 — 4 days ago

I’ve been been married for 3 years, together for 5.

The past 2.5 years I’ve been the only one brining income into the house. He hasn’t worked since, he’s tried one business idea into the car works but it’s just not working. Along side carrying the mental

Load of everything keeping up with the household - cooking and cleaning. I’m tired and burned out I do t think I can do it anymore. We are middle eastern so this typically frowned upon if the man isn’t working. I’m only 24 and feel like I’ve spent my last years working and paying bills. I want to leave but I just don’t know how to navigate this.

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u/Immediate-Effect9786 — 23 days ago