Advice needed please
I’m (19f) in Irish college for 2 weeks as part of my primary teaching course. There’s about 300 of us here and we’re split into smaller classes/groups. I keep ending up in group work with this one guy (19m) and I’ve developed the biggest crush on him 😭
We’ve had a few really good conversations during group work — like once we finished the actual task we were still chatting about random things like music, sport, driving, accommodation etc and it flowed really naturally. I genuinely get excited internally when he’s in my group. I’ve never had a situationship or anything before and I’ve never felt like this about anyone.
But the signals are SO mixed and I genuinely can’t tell if he likes me or if I’m delusional.
Some context:
We were out one night and he barely acknowledged me.
Another night in the nightclub he was dancing really close/pushing into me but I ignored it because I panicked 😭
I followed him on Instagram after and he requested to follow me back pretty quickly.
He watches all my stories but never likes them lol.
Some days I feel like he’s looking at me a lot, other days there’s basically no interaction.
One day in class he stopped at the door to let me through first which made me overthink everything.
At a céilí we were dancing in the same set and when we swapped partners and danced together he didn’t say a word 😭 meanwhile he danced with my friend and after she kept calling him “odd” and now all my friends don’t like him lol (they have NO idea I like him).
We only have a few days left here and I’m spiralling because I really want him to make a move/add my Snapchat/message me/something.
The thing is I feel like he could just be really awkward/shy and honestly so am I, so maybe that’s why nothing is happening. But then part of me thinks if a guy likes you surely he’d DO something??
Am I reading into this way too much or does this sound like there could actually be something there?