How do I [29F] know what he [29M] wants?
Hi everyone,
Two and a half months ago I started dating a guy from a mutual friend group and since our first date things seem to have been going in the right direction. We’ve been on lots of dates, have great chemistry, sex is mind-blowing and we seem to get along very well as the conversations are always flowing. We have known each other for a few years but we were both in relationships so never pursued each other but were always very fond of each other‘s presence. When we first started dating it was fairly soon after we had left our relationships and we didn’t really put a label on it since we were both simply enjoying each other’s company.
However, as time has been passing and the more dates we have been on, I have realised that I have developed intense feelings for him and would like this to blossom into some serious in the future. I don’t think I’d be feeling that way if it wasn’t for the way he behaved as he is always very attentive, compliments my personality as well as my looks, and remembers little details about things that I’ve mentioned in the past. I also got to meet some of his friends a few weeks ago.
Although everything seems to be going in the right direction, I cant help but feel conflicted about what he might want out of the situation. He is GREAT in person, however he is not so great at communicating over text, even though he is very consistent when it comes to making plans together. He is also not the type of person to openly talk about his feelings, however his actions do tell me that he is at least somewhat invested in whatever we have. Lately I’ve been feeling an intense urge to tell him that I’ve developed feelings for him, however I am just afraid of pushing him away and coming across as too needy. Also could I just be a rebound for him?
Please let me know what you think!