AITA for being mad at my mom
when I was 15 me and my mom had a argument. the neighbor and my dad kept asking about public school (because I was homeschooled at the time) and she started saying I needed to tell the neighbors I don’t wanna go to public school. (which i genuinely didn’t wanna go to public school) she than went on a tangent about how I need to stick up for myself and tell them I didn’t wanna go and she thought I kept telling me that I told them this. I told her I didn’t tell them I wanted to go to public school but like always she said ‘it must com from somewhere’ and than I got mad. I went outside to calm down and take the dog out and found my mom on my phone and I was waiting for her to get off (she would check insta on my phone cause she didn’t have it) than misunderstood some stuff and took my phone away while not listening to what I said. I then got angry and we had an argument. a week later she reset my phone but let me keep my contacts with my relatives and that’s it. I got a text from my grandfather saying he heard we had a fight and didn’t want us to argue like my other siblings (who don’t live with us) and he didn’t want us to have a bad relationship because she had a seizure a while back and it was scary to think of losing her. I replied that we were getting better (or I thought we were) and said that i was just emotional. (i already apologized by that point btw) than he sent other stuff and I responded and my heard and was like she needed to spell check me and she does that so I didn’t mind. she saw the message and basically accused me of purposely being bad and acting out after her seizure and I said I didn’t and started going on about how she wouldn’t treat me bad if I had a seizure and I said I did. she got mad and told me to bring her my phone and I did. but than she kept going on and on and I had enough and went to reach for my phone. we had both been struggling for it and at one point she tried smashing it and I got it back but it also called the police. we told them it was an accident but they came anyways. we both got questioned separately and I talked to the officers. they asked if I wanted a written statement but I said no because this was an accident and I didn’t want it to be a big thing. than I see my mom coming down the stairs with a pen and paper with a smile ready to write a written statement about ME and I realized how messed up that was and I wrote down my own. than the officer who talked to my mom asked me some questions and I got arrested (because my mom was more injured than me) as a 15 year old I was so numb yet so emotional. I thought my life was over and had 3 emotional breakdowns the entire experience. I now do not live with her and am happy to not contact her unless I need to. AITA for wanting to cut her out for this?