I don’t know if this sub is the right place to vent about this, but ok I feel like I’m in this weird situation. I’m currently going to school (trade school) and the people there at least personally for me mostly match my vibe when it comes to interest in types of games, movies/tv etc and just overall personality,
but I sometimes go to this predominantly queer bar (just so I can get out of the house cause I’m mostly a homebody)and when I’m there, I don’t feel any form of connection with people there like the only thing we all share is our identity, and aside from that I don’t feel like I belong when it comes to personalities and interest, and sometimes at this bar some of the guys who I hang around, they just talk about things. I just don’t care about like stereotypical gossip I guess and I feel like I have to pretend to care.
But at the trade school, the vibe with the people there just feels more natural but I don’t wanna tell them my sexuality or bring it up in any way because I don’t wanna open up a possible can of worms of bullshit
I don’t know bruh being a bi male who gets stuck in these situations is not fun its honestly pretty irritating
Like I just don’t feel connected to any form of queer culture at all like the only thing I share is just the identity, but like I’m struggling to find people who are like me who I can really connect with and who won’t judge me and understand what I deal with